Tuesday, July 16, 2013

We are home....

12 suitcases and ten pieces of hand luggage and 14 hours later we are home in Australia.  Everyone is asking me how the girls are coping with the changes, I guess the best answer is they are happy, but in a confused kind of way. 

Things have changed since we last lived in Australia, I'm feeling like a newly arrived immigrant in our own country.   We have a house to live in, after much chasing around of rental agents.  Its a nice family home in  a good area near a school that has a good English as a second language program. 

We move in on Friday, we have a storage unit full of goodness only knows what, I am looking forward to seeing our stuff, its been nearly five years since we put it all in there.

Our stuff from Abu Dhabi is somewhere on the high seas on its way to Australia.  I have no idea when we will see that! 

Our little dog Abby is still in Abu Dhabi.  She cannot travel for a few more weeks, she has to wait for rabies blood test results.  She is in safe hands with our maid Delia who is now living with friends in Al Reef.

Its COLD!  

 

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Well like the title of my blog, the Schmids are moving!

It has been a big decision, but once we made the decision, it all feels good.  We are going home.

We arrived in Abu Dhabi as a family of two, with our suitcases and a few boxes and intended to stay two years. 

Now more than double that time we are a family of five, many boxes and suitcases and a dog.

We have loved our time in the United Arab Emirites, life has been good to us.  However we feel it is time that the girls go to Australia, spend time with family and get into school in Australia.

Recently we had Bert's Aunt Helga here from Canada and the girls loved her being here so much.  She was someone with links to the family, she has known Bert since he was a little boy.  I saw how they listened to her and loved her dearly.  I realized that is what we are missing in our lives, extended family.

We have made so many wonderful friends here.  Muslim, Christians and Hindus and probably quite a lot of other faiths I cannot think of right now.  We have experienced sandstorms, a few earthquakes.  We have worked our way around a lot of confusing rules and traditions, but most of all we have had fun and go home changed and better people for the experience.

The friends who have impacted our lives are too many to mention.  Work collegues, neighbours, friends from all corners of the world all made the experience that much richer and more fun.  

The greatest experience however has been the outpouring of generosity and extreme kindness we were shown by everyone we came in contact with since adopting the girls.  Rose recently said to me, everyone is so kind to us, but before my life in Ethiopia everyone was mean to me.  For every person who dropped off gifts for her birthday, or cakes, or your own childrens outgrown clothes for my girls, you have taught them a powerful lesson.  That the world can be a kind place.  And they experienced that for the first time in Abu Dhabi. 


Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Pillowslips

Funny how such a small thing most of us take for granted can have such a profound effect on our lives.

In the first week that I was in Abu Dhabi I read about a woman who was making care packages for labourers.  She had surveyed the men and asked them what they would most like to receive.

One man told her a new pillowslip as it would make it so much easier to control the lice if he was able to wash his pillowslip more often.

How many of us have a stack of unused mismatched pillowslips in our cupboards that we keep for reasons we are never quite sure about.

I went out and bought 6 dozen pillow slips and sent them to this lady but it was still just a drop in the ocean of what was actually required.

It also moved me to start the welfare collections from expat families to give to laborers that we still do daily, we give away about a truck load of goods per week. 

One of my friends recently said to me, you are one of the few people who when they go home, can honestly say you have made a difference in peoples lives here.  Such a nice compliment.


Last night my sweet funny little Tamirie was crying in her bed.  I went in to talk to her and give her a hug and she said Mum, do you think we could send my pillow to my mum in Ethiopia?  Its so soft and clean and she would love it.

My heart just breaks for this precious little girl who has lived on the streets of Addis for the first six years of her life in what she calls her plastic house.  It was a piece of plastic stuck to the church walls.

Her  mother and four siblings are still on the street using goodness knows what for a pillow. 

Friday, February 1, 2013

How did it get to be February already?

I've barely put the Christmas decorations away and here it is February already.  While Australia is being battered with bushfires, heatwaves, floods and tornados we are enjoying the coolest winter we have had in the Middle East. 

The girls have never seen fog, or frog as they often call it.  Most mornings for the past two weeks have been very thick fog. Photos of fog are difficult because well, its foggy!  But I love this image of Dubai in the fog. 

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

2012 Al Dhafra Camel Festival

I won't bore you with a million camel photos from the camel festival.  We went to this festival two years ago with Laura and had a fabulous time so we saw it was on again while Renee and Gerhard were with us.  Bert had hired a van to get around in while they were here so we headed off into the desert to the camel festival.

We had fun, it was smaller than last time we were there, probably because it was mid week but it was still great.  This picture is my favorite from the day. 

I will try and include a map just to show how remote an area this camel festival is.  You drive to the middle of nowhere (Madinat Zayed) then go about 20 kms past it, turn left and drive about 5kms into the sand and you are there.  The middle of nowhere.            camel festival in the middle of nowhere.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

And so that was Christmas!

We had a fabulous Christmas 2012.  Our friends Renee and Gerhard Plenert came from Saudi where they are temporarily staying to celebrate with us.  Saudi is not exactly a hot spot for Christmas cheer.

In addition to the great company, it was the girls first Christmas.  Last year they think they got a postcard, and they have told me Christmas was so great because they got a bottle of coke and an orange. 

We tried to keep it as low key as possible so as not to overwhelm them but in the days leading up to the big day there were a steady stream of friends and neighbours arriving with gifts for girls until we had an enormous pile of gifts under the tree. 

Tamirie singing away in a manger at the church Christmas eve programme  She did great, we were worried she was going to turn it into the first ever song and dance rendition

Christmas eve, good friends and German food.  What's not to love?
 

Helen and Rose, opening their presents, their first ever mobile phone


I love this photo. Tamirie is just such a joy of a child.  Always full of smiles and fun.  This is her gift to her Dad, a water pistol.  We thought it would be a great new discipline method and Tamirie seems to agree.  















 

Sunday, December 30, 2012

I'm back.

A lot has happened since May when I last posted and each time I went to post it was all too big to put into one small update. 

These three girls explain my absence online.  Helen on the left Rose on the right and Tamirie in the front are the new additions to our family.  Bert and I legally adopted them from Ethiopia on July 18th 2012.  It has been an "interesting" six months getting them settled and we still have a very long way to go.  However, when I consider 6 months ago these girls had never eaten with a knife and fork, never seen hot water come out of a tap, and they could speak no english... I am amazed at how far they have come. 

I have promised my lovely friend Renee that I will update more often, so watch this space!

Saturday, May 26, 2012

why are we still here?

because making the blog private did not go how I expected it to!  So its in the too hard basket for now.  We are home from a fabulous ten days or so in Germany and Austria.  The weather was perfect.  The lilacs were in full bloom everywhere, chestnut trees were in flower and everywhere is so GREEN! 

We stayed in a 600 year old guest house run by a guy Bert went to school with.  People in these parts don't seem to move far from home.

                                                           lilacs in bloom everywhere

                                                   chestnut trees in full bloom

Saturday, May 5, 2012

goodbye, farewell, Auf Wiedersehem!

We are about to embark on a new and exciting phase in our life.  You are welcome to join us and follow our journey but for reasons that will become clear it needs to be done in a private blog.  As I said you are most welcome to join the new blog(in a week or so once Ive got it organised ) but you need to email me your email address and who you are and I shall give you access.

We are off to Germany and Austria for a few days break, I shall do this when we return.

Email us at bankdschmid@gmail.com

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

another new car

Bert surprised me with a new car.  This one a little more practical than his.  Im usually very unimpressed by cars but this one is lovely.  Its a KIA Soul. 

Friday, March 23, 2012

Where have we been?

So much has happened since the last blog post.  Its always hard to get back into blogging after a gap because where do you begin to fill in the gaps that have happened.


First, our lovely Laura has been for a holiday.  Laura has been in Korea working and is on her way home to Australia, via Abu Dhabi, Addis Ababa and Katmandu!  So shes taking the scenic route.

Laura, Bert and I flew to Addis for a week.  It was hard going.  Addis is brown, dirty brown.  Full of poverty and human misery everywhere you look.  It was all overwhelming.

We stayed in a small guest house near the orphanage, it was spotlessly clean but very basic.  It seemed so wrong to stay in a flash hotel surrounded by such poverty.

Our driver drove a standard blue and white Lada car with one window winder and door handle between four of us.  Stickers of the virgin Mary on the windscreen apparently are an added safety feature like an airbag.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

New Car!

Bert bought a new car this week.  A BMW Z3.

Not exactly the most practical thing on earth at this time of our lives with two children about double the size of our family in the next two months. 

Saturday, January 14, 2012

New Years at Qasr Al Sarab resort

By the time we finally got around to arranging anything for New Years eve everywhere was booked.  Originally we thought we would stay in a hotel in Dubai and watch the fireworks there but everything was booked.  One hotel did provide some momentary amusement by asking what date did New Years eve was this year but still the same result, no vacancies. 

So we decided if we couldn't go to Dubai we would go as far away from Dubai and the crowds as possible so we booked two nights at Qasr al Sarab in the Empty Quarter.

It is just the most stunning location.  Here is a short video of the drive into Qasr al Sarab

New Years eve was a Gala dinner planned with fire shows and fabulous fireworks.  We all had a great time.  Here we are with our lovely guest Helga. 

Friday, December 30, 2011

Finally, Bert speaks!

Hello Everybody Out There (Finally, Bert contributes to the Blog)


Quite some time ago now, we created this blog for various specific reasons. Actually, I shouldn’t say “we” because, right up to now, all the work was done by Kris: the setup of the blog itself; the formatting; and, of course, all the posts and entries. I guess, therefore, it should rightfully be called “Kris’ Shifting Sand”. The name for our blog obviously had to have some connotation to our new home environment. Hence, the Sand-Shifting. But then I thought, the acronym for “Shifting Sand” would be “SS” and, considering my heritage, that would have been a little bit too close to home. So, “SSS” (Schmids Shifting Sand) it had to be.

Kris has asked me (very nicely, I might add) on quite a few occasions to write on our blog, particularly on those days when I’d come home from work and say, ‘you cannot imagine what happened today . . .’ or, ‘you won’t believe this . . .’ And believe you me, those occasions were quite frequent at the beginning of our stay here in the UAE. By now, though, the kind of wow-factor in terms of amazement, bewilderment, shock, bemusement, or outright hilarity has waned a little. I guess, one could say, we have somewhat adjusted. Whilst this kind of adjustment allows you to get through the day with much less frustration it, however, also carries with it a lurking danger, a demographical hazard: the danger of one’s mindset being diluted and, subsequently, desensitized. Depending on your ethics, values, and intrinsic worth from the outset, this can pose a potentially serious side-effect of adjusting to life in the UAE.


There were many days when I regretted not having kept a diary or daily journal. Maybe not so much for keeping track of my own experiences or personal development, but just to have a record of all those hilarious and, sadly, often heart-wrenching moments I’ve encountered and am still experiencing on an almost daily basis. This is a very different world, and living here is certainly worth documenting.

As it is with all cultures and countries, you have to live and work here to really know what it’s like, to truly appreciate the people, the culture, how things are done, all the in’s and out’s. Tourists who come for a 2-week shopping spree to glitzy Dubai, indulge in serious luxury, or soak up some sun over their winter break have no idea; they only see one side, even though, undoubtedly, a very nice side it is. Western companies, too, who want to set up business here thinking ‘we know how business is done in the developed world’ (whatever definition they may put on the word ‘developed’) very soon realize that this is, indeed, a different world. If you think you can come here and just carry on from the way you conducted business in the West, you are doomed to fail. There is no single ‘master key’ to success. Now, I don’t want this to be the foreword to my book “As-Aalam Alaykum – How to Conduct Business in the Middle East”, so, enough of that.

I first came to the UAE three years ago (it still seems like only yesterday) with the objective to set up our Australian business in the region. For the first nine months or so I kept commuting between Melbourne and Abu Dhabi two to three times a month. As the jetlag compounded so Abu Dhabi changed around me. It really is quite mind-blowing how fast this country is developing.

The UAE, rich in oil and natural gas, has become highly prosperous over the last few decades and has seen growth and progressive development of larger-than-life proportions unlike any other region in the world. Having one of the world's highest per capita incomes, Abu Dhabi and the Schmids are witnessing spectacular real estate growth rates, backed by aggressive development plans scheduled to continue until the year 2030 (worth over US$300 billion). The UAE is not immune to the global financial crisis, but, fortunately for us particularly Abu Dhabi has largely managed to avoid over-exposure to the stressed international and regional credit markets through prudent financial management and huge foreign investment.

However, every coin has a flip side, right? Far too often, I believe, one major factor contributing to the UAE’s rapid development is mostly being ignored or even forgotten. Of the UAE’s total population over 80% comprise of expatriates; around 70% of these come from Bangladesh. The remaining 30% of expats encompass mainly Indians, Filipinos, Sri Lankans, Pakistanis, Nepalese, and people from a few other countries (Middle East, Asia Minor, and Africa). There is only a small minority of Westerners like us (mainly from the UK, USA, and Australia). Whilst we “white” guys may do most of the designing, planning, managing, and supervising of the mammoth projects, it is the underpaid, exploited, and often abused workforce from these third-world countries who climb around on construction sites or dig trenches on the road side in 50ºC and 90% humidity. True, the brains from the West combined with the money from the Gulf enable such large-scale rapid development; however, the physical building of the country’s infrastructure is largely undertaken by peoples who have left their poverty-stricken countries and come here to provide a “better” life for their families back home in Bangladesh and the like. Incongruously, most of them actually manage to do just that on pathetic, hardly-conceivable wages. Moreover, when it comes to dishing out the credits for the country’s achievements, these people are rarely mentioned or, worse still, totally overlooked.

Comparing incomes further highlights the gross inequality. A housemaid or cleaner typically earns 600 to 1,500 dirhams a month (approx. US$160 to 400); a supervisor or office worker’s monthly salary may range from about AED 2,000 to 5,000 (US$540 to 1,350) depending on industry, capability, and responsibility. The moment you reach lower- to mid-level management positions, one’s origin and/or skin colour become quite a deciding factor in determining the salary structure. Admittedly, though, the difference in education, capability, and experience is equally obvious at times. For example, you’d have to look very hard to find an Indian or Pakistani project / operations manager that earns up to, let alone more, than 20,000 dirhams a month (US$4,000 to 5,500); whereas a Western guy in the same position would probably not even consider anything less than AED 35,000 (10,000 US dollars plus). Then you have your general managers and directors cashing in no less than 70-100,000 dirhams a month (US$20,000 + +) plus committee fees, director fees, etc and all the other perks that come with it, i.e. nice cars, housing, free schooling for the kids (and that’s not cheap, believe me) business class travel, bonuses, and so forth. And all of it is free of fringe benefit or income tax.

Yes, there’s no doubt and no denying, we’ve got it pretty good. Also, you can see why many lose perspective and their sense of reality. On the other hand, it puts some of us in a very privileged and blessed position where we can (and should) do a lot of good and show neighbourly love and compassion. For this, I thank God every day.

Both Kris and I believe it is not by chance that we ended up in this corner of the world. The way circumstances developed in mid to late 2008 (the passing of my younger brother in Germany, battling with sickness, and organizational restructure within my company) it first looked like a natural progression of my career to take on the role of an expat and move to Abu Dhabi to establish our Australian company in the Middle East. But now, looking back, it seems Almighty had a slightly different plan for us. No doubt, He wanted us in the UAE but not on our terms. So, we shouldn’t have been too surprised that even after eight strenuous months of establishing networks in the UAE (at the same time constantly commuting between Melbourne and Abu Dhabi) nothing really took off at satisfactory level. I contribute this to an accumulation of various questionable business decisions taken by the directors back in Melbourne, which, for ethical and commercial reasons I won’t discuss publicly online. Whatever the reasons, though, in November 2009 I was offered to run a locally-based and government-owned company as general manager. I accepted and, with a natural and reasonable amount of self-protecting interest, still saw this as the most logical and appropriate step in my career advancement. Well, what can I say? From that moment on things changed in a very positive but rather unexpected way.

Being responsible for the livelihood, welfare, and pretty much all other facets of their lives, my over 2,000 employees provide me with ample opportunity (and the continually renewed and deep-routed desire) to extend the Love of Christ on a daily basis. Even if you disregard the spiritual aspect of this statement, the amount of genuine care, compassion, and love for my neighbour I can provide on an emotional level and in practical terms is worth more than anything (whosesoever my neighbour may be: my wife, my children and stepchildren, my extended family and friends, all my staff and workers and their families in third-world countries, our housemaid, the pool guy, a gardener in a hotel car park, or the guy sweeping the streets on a busy intersection). Seeing the eyes and faces of my workers light up when I pay them a visit at the camp and sit on the floor with them sharing a meal with our hands from the same plate is priceless, the biggest reward, something precious, something to cherish till the end of my days; in those moments I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else in the world. “Giving – Showing Love in Practical Ways” will be the heading for my next blog entry. Let’s just hope it won’t take another three years before I’ll sit down to write it. My love and greetings to all of you.

Friday, December 23, 2011

Driving at Yas Island F1 track

This was last years Christmas gift for Bert but he has not had time to make the appt to go for the drive.  It was worth the wait!  Pictured here with Abbas the Emirati instructor in front of the Astin Martin car he drove.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Good news.

Congratulations to my sister and brother in-law Jan and Allan.  I'm thrilled for you both. 

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Yas Island

We only live a few minutes from Yas Island. Home of the Grand Prix circuit, the largest Ikea in the Middle East, and they are building a huge water park, just what we need in the middle of the desert.

A friend took this beautiful photo last night of Yas Island hotels.  It is just amazing that when we first arrived this area was nothing more than a sand island with a few building sites.

Friday, December 9, 2011

More of Berts birthday

 
I had cufflinks made for him that say Schmid in Arabic.  So lovely!